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The Third Magnet That Attracts You Towards The Wrong Life Partner
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The Third Magnet That Attracts You Towards The Wrong Life Partner

Anxiety therapy, relationship issues

The Third Magnet That Attracts You Towards The Wrong Life Partner

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:17+00:00September 3rd, 2013|Anxiety therapy, relationship issues|

Do you wish you had a crystal ball that you could look into and find out why you repeatedly go for the wrong person no matter how hard you try to avoid the same mistake? You may not realize it, but you do - deep inside you there is a shiny crystal ball that your unconscious peers at and it gets very excited when it finds three elements that make it go crazy with desire. You are not in control of these three forces, but you can be, by tuning into this, the third in the series of videos that gives you the low down on what the pull that these magnets have on you. Once you become aware of the three magnetic forces that act in unison ( which is why they are so difficult to eradicate) you will have a chance to pause and bring your healthy self to protect you from these strong and powerful magnets that attract you to the 'same person' even though they may look and sound different at first.

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Why You Choose The Wrong Partner Over And Over Again – part 2
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Why You Choose The Wrong Partner Over And Over Again – part 2

Anxiety therapy, Intimacy

Why You Choose The Wrong Partner Over And Over Again – part 2

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:17+00:00August 26th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy|

Are you getting worried and anxious about the fact that you always seem to get attracted to people who either don't want you, or that turn out to be nothing like you imagined? Have you ever wondered why you don't seem to feel any chemistry with the people who seem to be steady, reliable and solid? Perhaps you have been in a relationship with someone who treated you well and that you could count on, but then found yourself drawn to someone else who made you tingle and kept yur heart bubbling with excitement. You may be pulled by the need for a certain feeling of being fully alive and on fire that reliable partners don't ignite. Watch this video and learn about the second reason why you keep getting attracted to, and pick the wrong partner.

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Why You Keep Getting Attracted To The Wrong Person- part 1
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Why You Keep Getting Attracted To The Wrong Person- part 1

Anxiety therapy, Intimacy

Why You Keep Getting Attracted To The Wrong Person- part 1

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00August 21st, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy|

Do you think there is something wrong with you because you keep picking the wrong partner? -Do you wonder why you keep getting attracted to the wrong people? There are three reasons why you are compelled to feel a thrill when you meet someone who appears to be exactly what you have been searching for, but ends up disappointing you and stressing you out. It's true that you are searching for a certain person who you want to relate to but you end up feeling defeated and depleted. This video explains the first and most powerful reason why the right person into the wrong partner.

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Are you ashamed of your relationship and hide it from family and friends?
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Are you ashamed of your relationship and hide it from family and friends?

Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues

Are you ashamed of your relationship and hide it from family and friends?

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00July 30th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Bursting with energy and excitement thirty-three year old Evelyn closed up her jewelry design studio and took Greg her thirty-four year old boyfriend to his second interview for the position of assistant chef at the hottest restaurant in town! As usual he was broke and couldn’t afford to put gas in his car. But when she got there he was irritable and snapped at her no matter how much she tried to boost his confidence. By the time they reached the restaurant she was already regretting helping him out, vowing never to bother again! Ever since she saw the job advertised online she had encouraged him to go for it, hoping that he would make something of himself. She wanted a partner on her level of the social and career ladder and if that meant she had to yank him up to be her equal, then that is what she resolved to do. After years of debating grappling with the question, "how do you find a good guy?" she had finally found one, but he needed polishing and shaping up to be even better.

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Are your personal goals likely to save your marriage or break it up?
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Are your personal goals likely to save your marriage or break it up?

Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, relationship issues

Are your personal goals likely to save your marriage or break it up?

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00July 5th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, relationship issues|

Do you feel that your partner is always putting you down and being superior? Do you want to outdo them at their game? Are you always in competition with one another about who is the more moral, the greater lover, the better at remembering the important things in life? Then your goals may be misaligned, causing stress and risk to your marriage. This video shows you how to detect the motivation behind your goals so that you can evaluate whether your marriage is at risk.

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Continual Separating and reuniting doesn’t have to threaten your relationship!
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Continual Separating and reuniting doesn’t have to threaten your relationship!

Anxiety therapy, Breakups and Separation, Intimacy, relationship issues, separation counseling

Continual Separating and reuniting doesn’t have to threaten your relationship!

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00June 24th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Breakups and Separation, Intimacy, relationship issues, separation counseling|

The way in which you greet and receive your partner after a separation be it momentary for days longs says everything about the health and security of your relationship. Even the shortest of separations from loved ones can cause stress before and after the actual parting. Whether you and your partner separate and reunite every day one of you leaves the other to go to work, to make a phone call to someone else or have to make longer trips that involve a chunk of time away from one another, the disturbance in your emotional state can make reunions uncomfortable. The more insecure you are in your relationship the more uncomfortable and stressful the reunion which may take several minutes, hours, days or weeks to be fully realized.

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Two ways to get your partner to accept that they need therapy to deal with their problems
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Two ways to get your partner to accept that they need therapy to deal with their problems

Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Couples Counseling, relationship issues

Two ways to get your partner to accept that they need therapy to deal with their problems

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00June 4th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Couples Counseling, relationship issues|

Have you worn yourself out with the stress of trying to persuade your partner to go to counseling for anger issues only to be told that there is no problem? Do you want to just walk out of your relationship when your partner calls you crazy after you reason with them about going to therapy for problems with lying, cheating, gambling or substance abuse? Instead of having a competition for who is crazy and who is nuts, or who has their head screwed on right or wrong, watch this video and learn two ways in which you can get through to your partner about accepting that there is a problem requiring professional therapy.

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How perfectionism turns you into a liar to yourself and your loved ones
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How perfectionism turns you into a liar to yourself and your loved ones

Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Intimacy, relationship issues

How perfectionism turns you into a liar to yourself and your loved ones

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00May 29th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Have you ever felt energized by setting out to do something nice for a loved one only to have it blow up in your face? Did you feel like your good intentions got turned into dirt that you then had to swallow? Perhaps you wondered how on earth your loved one could be upset and angry over your good hearted words and actions – and then you got angry back. You probably felt misunderstood and defeated, as if your golden heart had been turned into rotting ashes. But do you know why your vision of kindness backfired? Do you know what you left out of the equation that made your loved one treat you like a disingenuous lying fraud?

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How to be happy in a relationship by tuning into your partner’s needs
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How to be happy in a relationship by tuning into your partner’s needs

Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Intimacy, relationship issues

How to be happy in a relationship by tuning into your partner’s needs

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00May 18th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Do you and your partner love each other but feel unhappy in your relationship? Have you tried all the ways you know to please your partner yet still get the message that you are failing? That may because men and women want different things in order to feel happy and satisfied in the relationship.

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How to manage conflict in a relationship so you don’t feel prejudged
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How to manage conflict in a relationship so you don’t feel prejudged

Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, relationship issues

How to manage conflict in a relationship so you don’t feel prejudged

By dr_j_raymond|2016-12-13T05:19:18+00:00May 8th, 2013|Anxiety therapy, Communication Problems, relationship issues|

Do you hurt and angry when your partner refuses to listen to your side of things when you are in a conflict? Perhaps you get desperate when your partner has already decided what you did and why you did it, leaving you feeling cheated and unfairly judged. Naturally you get stressed and make heroic efforts to influence your partner's view so that they change their minds and see your truth. But your partner just avoids you. They won't listen and shut you out. The harder you try the more crazy they think you are and they just dismiss you, leaving you high and dry, not knowing how the relationship stands. You don't know if you have lost trust and love or whether things will just find a way of returning to some baseline that is tolerable. This video uses the latest research on couples in conflict and gives you the lowdown on how to get your partner to see your side of things when you are engaged in conflict management.

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