Do you feel outraged at your loved one for texting others while out with you? Your sense of abandonment and feelings of being ignored can make you feel insecure, pushing you to end the relationship. Learn how to figure out what gets triggered for you in this moment before you destroy what may be a good relationship.
If you are losing hope that you will ever find a date that turns out to be as good on the inside as they look on the outside then your head and heart may be pulling you in different directions. Learn how to avoid being constantly disappointed and disillusioned with dates that attract you at first but later turn you off.
If you want to make a new relationship but feel disloyal to your previous partner because you still have strong feelings towards them then you probably feel conflicted and trapped. You feel like you have to choose between what is valuable to you and something uncertain. You don't want to betray or tarnish the good memories. Learn how to safeguard those good memories without being disloyal while still making room for the enjoyment of a new, alive and in the moment relationship that can nourish you without taking anything away from the beauty of your previous connections.
You can have the love of your life complete your hopes and dreams just like in the movies. Waiting and hoping it will just happen isn't the way to go. Learn how to prepare the ground work so that the special person just right for you can find you and create that wonderful partnership that makes you feel like a million dollars.
Do you want to know how to make sure to get your date to see you again? Learn how to put on your 3D emotional lens and check in with your traffic lights. Avoid miscommunication with crossed signals. Discover how you may be giving off red lights signals that put your date off, rather than the green lights that may turn them on.
If you feel snubbed by your date who doesn't appear to want to sleep with you after doing it once during dates, there may be a very good reason. It's likely that you have something good going between you that sex would spoil. Learn how sex can drive you apart instead of making you an item if you make it the main criteria of your dating success.
Learn how to prepare yourself for meeting with your date or loved ones so that your hopes and expectations don't get dashed in disappointment. Check in with yourself about what you are wanting and hoping for before you get lost in the fantasy and then have your bubble burst.
When you can't seem to get through to your loved ones or they don't believe what you say it may be because you are giving mixed messages even though you feel clear and direct in your messages. Learn how to get all parts of your message in synch by orchestrating your emotions in an open and transparent way so that you come across as credible. Then you can have a dialogue based on what's really going on inside you rather than what others misinterpret or distort.
Pretending you aren't hurt when things go wrong in your relationships may make you feel strong in the moment. But suppressed and denied hurt turns into hostile contempt and wish for revenge- the ideal recipe for breakups and divorce. Learn how to express your hurt without being accusatory or punishing. Make room for feeling better and more connected when you have given your hurt it's rightful voice.
When you get that feeling that there's no point saying anything because you "know" how your loved one will react, you relive a frozen image of the past and kill any chances of connection. Get this tip on beginning a conversation to share your ideas, experience and feelings by asking questions that keep you both firmly grounded and fresh in your ever changing relationship and enjoy the contact!
