Bargaining with your loved ones either because you are afraid of being rejected or because you are riddled in guilt can bring short term relief. In the long run the relationships are torn into shreds because your true motives for the bargain are not on the table. Learn how to take care of your relationship with healthy compromise instead of stressful bargaining.
When the responsibility of caring for your partner feels burdensome the fun disappears and you want to end it, but can't let go. The conflict and guilt makes you sick and gives you a temporary respite - putting decisions on hold. Discover how to keep the romance alive and exciting while sharing responsibility.
Stop ruining your chances of having a good relationship by letting your jealousy get the better of you. Learn how to manage the destructive feelings of jealousy and hang onto the love you have, have always had and will continue to have if you don't let jealousy turn you into a deprived,angry and demanding person.
Doing things you know you should do just to avoid guilt means you are reacting to bad feelings.It is a harsh stick that never stops beating you. Guilt is a negative motivator stopping you from ever doing things out of joy, happiness, excitement or for self-improvement. Learn how to throw the guilt out of the window and get back in touch with your true motivation to have warm relationships just because you are you and not because you have to earn it or get punished when you don't do as you should. Make space for your authentic motivation and see how easy it is to get things done!
Don't suffer the hurt and anger of being rebuffed by " I'm not in the mood!" or " not now, it's not a good time!" from your partner when you are ready to talk and share. Learn how to approach your partner to get them in synch with you so that you are both ready to talk at the same time.
Despairing about the fact that flirting isn't getting you results? Perhaps you are using the wrong style of flirting to get what you want. Which of the five styles of flirting matches your needs? Find out if you are using the right style of flirting to get the relationship you want.
What are your partner's motives for making you promises they can't keep and don't really intend to keep? Learn what research on couples making promises tells you about the reason why you keep your promises but your partner fails in that department.
video tip - Get connected to people and feel full with what they have to share instead of guarding yourself for fear your treasures are going to be robbed and used by others. Learn to give and receive so that sharing becomes a way to connect and feel fulfilled.
Video tip on overcoming loneliness by reaching out for loved ones and feeling supported rather than retreating based on fear of rejection.
Walking on egg shells to avoid hurting others or having what you said come back to bite you saps your motivation to be in a relationship. It becomes work rather than a natural flow of communication that allows for each person to share what's on their mind. Discover the two benefits of being open and frank that will enhance and improve the relationship, while giving you the right to say what you want without censoring every word.
