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Are you making the right kind of investment in your happiness?

By |2017-09-13T20:03:15+00:00March 13th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy|

If you work hard but never feel the investment in your future happiness pays off then you are always chasing a happiness that is elusive. You may be stressed with trying harder and not getting anywhere because your investment is focused in the wrong direction. Learn how to invest your time, energy and attention on the less tangible aspects of relationships and quality of life that will bring you the biggest bang for your emotional buck.

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Why your partner falls short of your ideal partner characteristics!

By |2017-09-13T21:12:17+00:00February 28th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Your ideal partner characteristics may be more of an unrealized dream than a reality. Research indicates that most couples settle with someone who falls way short of their ideal partner. Learn how that happens and how to deal with the disappointment, sense of betrayal and stress that this mismatch causes.

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The gift that will make your valentine love you for ever!

By |2016-12-13T05:19:25+00:00February 9th, 2012|Intimacy|

Do you want your valentine to treasure you and adore you forever? Then give the gift that can not be resisted. It involves ACT! you can act on it and give the three sure fired proven gifts that will make you the most valued and loved person in your valentines life. Find out the secret of the ACT principles that cost nothing, but when practiced every day will make you feel like a million dollars.

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Why It’s a Good Sign if Your Date Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You

By |2016-12-13T05:19:25+00:00February 7th, 2012|Intimacy|

If you feel snubbed by your date who doesn't appear to want to sleep with you after doing it once during dates, there may be a very good reason. It's likely that you have something good going between you that sex would spoil. Learn how sex can drive you apart instead of making you an item if you make it the main criteria of your dating success.

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Is your relationship break up permanent or just a shift in gears?

By |2016-12-13T05:19:26+00:00January 15th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Breakups and Separation, Intimacy, separation counseling|

Is your relationship really breaking up or just shifting to accommodate changing needs in order to survive? Discover the three myths about breaking up and learn about the three truths about relationship breakups that allow you to maintain and improve the connections after the initial shock.

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How to deal when you want commitment but your partner is hesitant!

By |2017-09-13T19:02:30+00:00January 11th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Couples Counseling, Intimacy, relationship issues|

If you are angry and tired of waiting for your partner to make good on a promise to commit to marriage and family then you are probably stressed and torn between staying in the hope of some movement and wanting to cut your losses. Learn 3 ways to help you decide what the costs and consequences are for you if you take the plunge and choose one side of your need. Take the pressure off yourself and your partner by looking at what is getting in the way and how to help your partner come out of the indecisive bubble.

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How to deal with a partner who is down when you are up!

By |2016-12-13T05:19:26+00:00January 8th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Are you afraid that your partner's bad mood will bring you down and rob you of your good mood? If you try unsuccessfully to cheer your partner up so you can both connect from a good place then learn how to understand the tension and gap between you so that you don't feel like a failure. Discover how to come to terms with your varying emotional metabolic rates so that you will both be ready and available to one another when the tense moments have passed.

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Why your Sex Life Goes from Fantastic to Boring in the blink of an eye!

By |2017-09-13T17:55:00+00:00January 4th, 2012|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

If you find that you can't get enough of good sex with your partner at some times but hate the thought of it later, you may be at the mercy of a set of mental factors that turn on the green light for short intervals, while staying on red for long spells. In the green light time zones you see each other as desirable and comforting, but during the red light time periods you perceive each other as robots who need to do their duty and kill off intimacy by making demands and comparisons that are impossible to overcome. Learn two ways you can keep the green light on for longer and on a lasting basis for your constant enjoyment of physical intimacy.

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Positive affirmations can damage your relationships!

By |2016-12-13T05:19:26+00:00December 11th, 2011|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Saying good things about yourself to yourself each day can make you feel better and more confident in the short term. But soon you need to up the ante and make the statements even more elaborate, comparing yourself to others in a superior way. If that comes across to friends and loved ones, and it does whether you say it openly or not, you are destroying your relationships. Learn how to work with your poor self-esteem in ways that bring you closer to people so that they provide the foundation on which you can feel good for ever, naturally, never needing these artificial self-affirmations again.

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Why your sex life is non-existant part 2- and how to get it going again.

By |2017-09-13T20:03:49+00:00December 7th, 2011|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|

Your sex life may be non-existent because of the roles you and your partner have assumed that makes sex impossible and bad! If you relate to each other as unequal master and slave, boss and worker, parent and child or enemies wanting the lions share of what is available, then sex as a loving act is out of the question. Learn how to avoid getting stuck in those destructive roles and enjoy your sex life again.

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