Relationship Advice Tips from Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

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photograph copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

If you spend much of your life waiting  for that fairy godmother to come and wave her magic wand to make your life magically happy  BUT go to bed each night angry that you got left out again:

THEN You probably find yourself envying other people who are motivated, happy and satisfied with their relationships.

And it’s all because you have an unconscious rule about who, what, when, and how you ought to be happy.

The one missing ingredient is that you don’t consider your role in your own happiness.

This video tells the story of a family man who was adamant about the fact that his loved ones and friends should prove their loyalty by doing everything possible to make him happy, because he was owed it – until his rage and envy ruined everything and he came to relationship counseling.

As he uncovered these unconscious relationship rules he began to understand why he was always lonely and miserable despite having a loving family. That’s when he began to use some of the relationship advice I gave him and found a much more satisfying connection with his loved ones.

copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

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Disclaimer: this video is for informational and educative purposes only. Dr. Raymond is not responsible for any reactions you may have when reading the content or using the suggestions therein. Interacting with this material does not constitute a therapeutic relationship with Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.