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Enjoying Intimacy Like You Did In The Early Days

Playing with your partner rather than alongside your partner keeps you in the moment, and helps you lower your guard. Physical activities such as playing in the sand or in a pool build trust, whereas competitive games like golf or chess set the stage for winning and losing, creating distance in the process. Playing spontaneously brings naturalness and vulnerability that promotes intimacy.

By |2017-09-11T21:12:10+00:00December 7th, 2010|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy|Comments Off on Enjoying Intimacy Like You Did In The Early Days

How to Stop Anger From Ruining Good Times

Tony’s anger at having to wait all his life for his parents to take the initiative overtook any sense of pleasure in the victory. He was angry about all the efforts he had made that went nowhere. He was angry that he had been rebuffed for so long. He was deeply hurt that his parents didn’t appear to have any desire to get to know his children. Now that his parents were coming the anger was let loose from the vault he had used to store it. How can Tony reconcile his joy and anger?

By |2017-09-11T17:35:08+00:00December 2nd, 2010|Anxiety therapy, relationship issues|Comments Off on How to Stop Anger From Ruining Good Times

How to Make up After a Fight and Find Intimacy

You know what it’s like after a disagreement or fight when you don’t want to be the first to speak, to make up, to get things back on a good footing with your loved one? So instead of waiting for your partner to go first, take a step toward intimacy by sharing your feelings. It will bring you nine positive outcomes including contentment that you are accepted, and more space and attention to be fully present in the moment

By |2017-09-11T19:14:40+00:00November 21st, 2010|Anxiety therapy, Intimacy, relationship issues|Comments Off on How to Make up After a Fight and Find Intimacy
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