Relationship Advice Tips from Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
Hurting and being hurt – it takes two!
photograph copyright Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
Do you feel outraged when someone has said or done something to hurt you, but they won’t admit it?
Are you lost for words when they can’t see that they did anything wrong and don’t feel they need to apologize?
Do you wonder if they are blind or just plain insensitive?
Then you need to watch this video.
Learn how to show and tell what hurts and why, so that the person who has hurt you understands their impact on you.
Learn how to come out of your helpless and angry state and have a dialogue where you learn about the other person’s intent and your reaction.
Give yourself a chance to get out from the under the axe and learn the dynamics of how and why your feelings keep getting overlooked.
Get out of conflict mode, and reduce the stress on yourself. Watch the video and practice!
