Using dreams to help you manage your personal challenges by Dr. Raymond, Ph.D.
photograph copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
Family Rifts Get Shaken Up By A Dream
Andrea hadn’t spoken to her mother for the past twenty years. She adored her father and found him supportive when she left for Australia with her new husband . The rift with her mother remained unreconciled despite Andrea’s divorce. One morning she awoke remembering a dream that gave her a deep sense of peace.
The Dream Of Life and Death
Andrea dreamt that she was looking into the yard of a two story house where a dead Oak tree had fallen. Fairies were going in and out of its hollow interior. She turned around to look inside the house and then back at the yard. This time the dead Oak was replaced by a fresh Willow tree. She was happy to see life blooming again.
The Dream Comforted as it Foretold of Loss
The next day Andrea heard that her father had died the same day she had her peaceful dream. The parent that nourished Andrea during her emotional storms had now died, just as the old Oak in the dream. Andrea’s dream came to foretell her loss, comfort her and help her grieve.
photograph copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
Healing Old Wounds Through Regeneration
Even though her solid rock of a father had passed, Andrea still needed to repair the breach with her mother, the source of her life. Trees are symbols of life sustained by deep roots. Her dream showed her that as one dies another flourishes, just as the Willow took the place of the dead Oak in the dream.
Forging New Bonds That Can Withstand Storms
Andrea’s created a new connection with her mother. Just like the Willow their relationship was strong, but flexible. Just like the Willow it could bend and sway in a storm, not snap and break as before. The old brittle mother-daughter relationship became a pliable cord, that was strong and able to handle pressure.
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photograph copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
The Dream That Kept On Giving
Andrea healed two deep wounds by attending to her dream- the death of her father and the broken connection with her mother. Honoring her dream allowed her unconscious to act as a healer, a mediator, a strengthener and a comforter. Andrea could have been orphaned if she didn’t welcome this dream and use its messages. She had already ‘lost’ a mother, and then her father died. By interacting with her dream she was able to grieve without falling apart, and reclaim the lost relationship with her mother, keeping her connected to her family roots.
