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  • * Do You Have To Choose between Romance and a Good Mate?
  • * Procrastinating About an Ambition May Be the Key To Authentic Success!
  • * Dealing With Jealousy When Your Partner is Attracted to Someone Else
  • * Your Rule About What Love is Can Bar You From Receiving it - part 10
  • * Rules About Who Makes You Happy, Makes You Angry and Envious -part 9
  • * Rules About What Makes Relationships Last Stop Them From Ever Starting -part 8
  • * Rules About Being Your Partner's Savior Harm Your Relationship - part 7
  • * Fear Based Rules About Feeling Secure in Your Relationship Can End It! Part 6
  • * Save Your Marriage By Avoiding Relationship Rules About Your Partner's Behaviour - part 5
  • * Rules About How You Should Express Your Needs Can Rupture Your Marriage- part 4
  • * Don't Ruin Your Marriage With Thorny Relationship Rules - part 3
  • * How Your Dating Rules Make Sure You Never Find The Partner You Want - part 2
  • * Your Dating Rules May Be Ruining Your Chances of Making a Good Relationship - part 1
  • * Are You And Your Partner Together On What ‘Togetherness’ Means?
  • * Stop The Cycle of Attraction To The Wrong Person And Learn To Like The Right One!
  • * The Third Magnet That Attracts You Towards The Wrong Life Partner
  • * Why You Choose The Wrong Partner Over And Over Again - part 2
  • * Why You Keep Getting Attracted To The Wrong Person- part 1
  • * How To Avoid The Stress When Your Spouse Nags At You For Being Unresponsive
  • * Regaining Your Sense of Security When Your Relationship Feels Unstable
  • * Are you ashamed of your relationship and hide it from family and friends?
  • * Are your personal goals likely to save your marriage or break it up?
  • * Continual Separating and reuniting doesn't have to threaten your relationship!
  • * Two ways to get your partner to accept that they need therapy to deal with their problems
  • * How perfectionism turns you into a liar to yourself and your loved ones
  • * How to use lies in relationships as catalysts to improve communication
  • * How to be happy in a relationship by tuning into your partner's needs
  • * How to relieve stress in a marriage by sharing jobs
  • * How to manage conflict in a relationship so you don't feel prejudged
  • * Managing co-dependency in a marriage - the second five steps in learning to support rather than rescue
  • * Managing family co-dependency - the first five steps in learning to support rather than rescue
  • * Is Co-Dependency the Currency of Your Family Relationships?
  • * How Do You Build Trust in a Relationship When You are Repeatedly Let Down?
  • * How to Get Your Boyfriend Back After Throwing Him Out
  • * Sibling Rivalries in Adulthood May be Due to Invisible Childhood Trauma
  • * How to Repair Family Relationships That Get Broken With Repeated Hurts
  • * The Main Barrier to Communication in Marriage is Fear of Listening Empathically
  • * Self-Compassion Makes You the Partner You Want to be Toward Your Loved One
  • * How to Get What You Want From Your Valentine
  • * Where to Find a Boyfriend When the Current One is No Good?
  • * Are You Ready For Couples Therapy?
  • * Is Family Conflict Making a Friend Out of One Loved One and an Enemy of Another?
  • * Breaking Up Doesn't Have To Be so Hard To Do!
  • * Complimenting Your Partner Can Cause Relationship Problems!
  • * Uncover Your Hidden Motives That Sabotage Your Success!
  • * Develop Good Communication Skills and Solve Marriage Problems
  • * Self-help For Couples That Actually Works!
  • * Expressing Hurt Saves Relationships While Anger Causes Relationship Breakups
  • * Getting The Most Out of Couples Counseling
  • * Sharing Emotions Promotes Bonding That Supports You In Crisis
  • * How To Make Your Boyfriend Love You More and Find a Husband In Him
  • * Should You Leave Your Partner or Stay Hoping They Will Love You One Day!
  • * Save Your Marriage By Letting In Your Partner's Support
  • * How To Trust In Relationships
  • * Solving The Hurt Of Family Problems
  • * Save Your Marriage With Impactful Communications
  • * Dating Tips For Men To Relieve Anxiety About Finding a Girlfriend
  • * What Makes You Push Your Partner Away and Choose Depression and Loneliness?
  • * Dealing With a Partner Who Cannot Trust You and Insists You Are a Cheater
  • * Conflict Recovery Style Determines Whether Couples Stay Together
  • * Where Is Your Spouse When There Is No Response To Your Texts And Calls?
  • * Conflicting Secret Wishes And Motives Threaten Your Marriage Big Time!
  • * How To Deal With a Partner Who Lies And Cheats
  • * Do You Feel Abandoned When Your Partner Is With Family And Friends?
  • * Dealing With a Loved One Who Refuses To Talk When You Want To
  • * Why Women Take Longer Than Men To Cheer Up After Getting In A Fight or Bad Mood.
  • * Getting Proof That Your Partner Is Committed To You
  • * A Proven Way To Stop The Stress Of Conflict And Reconnect With Your Loved One
  • * How To Make Sure Your Date Turns Into a Positive Intimate Healthy Relationship.
  • * Do You Suffer In Silence In Order To Prove Your Love?
  • * How To Feel Included When You Feel Alone In a Group
  • * How To Transition Between Loved Ones Without Feeling Insecure
  • * Enjoying The Now Relationships Instead Of Waiting For Some Future Pleasure
  • * White Lies And Whoopers Make You Sick, Depressed And Cut Off From loved Ones.
  • * The Secret To Getting Loved Ones To Believe And Accept Your Facts!
  • * Why Your Ideal Of A Perfect Marriage Causes Your Finance To Break Off The Engagement
  • * How To Avoid Feeling Attacked When Your Partner Is Venting!
  • * How To Join In The Conversation Without Fearing Being Shut Down
  • * Keeping Silent About Your Stress Ensures Your Partner is Emotionally Unavailable To You
  • * How To Prove That You Are Not The Same As Your Partner's Exes!
  • * Do You Regret Rejecting a Possible Partner and Ending Up Alone and Scared?
  • * The Two Most Serious Signs of an Unhealthy Relationship
  • * Why 9 out of 10 Apologies Fail to Improve Relationships
  • * How To Manage Doubt and Loneliness After You Have Broken Up With Your Partner
  • * Five Ways to Find and Keep Available Partners Without Sabotaging Yourself!
  • * The Least Stressful Way yo Break Up With Your Girl/Boyfriend!
  • * Four Ways To Deal With A Hostile And Aggressive Partner
  • * How To Take A Break From Your Loved One Without Feeling Disloyal
  • * Ensure Your Relationship Against a Loss of Intimacy and Commitment!
  • * End Those Dreaded Fights And Enjoy Peaceful Relationships
  • * How to Manage The Guilt Of Saying 'No' To Your Partner!
  • * How To Stop Worrying About What Other People Think!
  • * How to make sure your relationship makes it past the initial romance
  • * How to deal with verbal attacks from your loved ones.
  • * How to deal with a loved one who texts others while in your company!
  • * How to recognize the 3 prerequisites of love and feel wanted!
  • * How to make that decision you have been putting off!
  • * What's the secret to being liked and popular and wanted?
  • * How to feel wanted instead of rejected!
  • * Who controls your energy levels, you or your loved one?
  • * How to stop a conversation turning into a fight!
  • * How to update failed relationship rules that cause your insomnia
  • * How to bring the zing back into an "okay" sex life!
  • * How come the people you date haven’t got their acts together?
  • * How to enjoy health and intimacy over the holiday weekend
  • * How to get the most satisfaction from venting to loved ones!
  • * How being unselfish is really selfish!
  • * How to handle the loss of hope that you will be loved the way you want
  • * How to make your partner want to be physically intimate with you!
  • * Should you apologize after an explosion of anger?
  • * How to make up after a fight without giving up!
  • * How to enjoy a relationship and protect yourself at the same time!
  • * How to stop old loyalties from getting in the way of new relationships
  • * To forgive or not to forgive, that is the question!
  • * How to stop explosive bursts of anger
  • * Four ways to manage the excitement and dread of family reunions
  • * How to find the love of your life
  • * Four alternatives to withdrawing from your romantic relationship
  • * Passover troubles and resurrect good times during the holidays
  • * How to survive a betrayal by a loved one
  • * How to stop fear from obstructing your success
  • * How to make sure your gorgeous date asks you out again
  • * How to manage embarrassing moments
  • * How gender differences in handling stress affects intimacy
  • * Three ways to share your stuff without fear of upsetting loved ones.
  • * Are you making the right kind of investment in your happiness?
  • * Overcoming that "it's not fair!" feeling
  • * Understanding your panic attacks- part 3, fear of going it alone!
  • * How to get your confidence back
  • * Why your partner falls short of your ideal partner characteristics!
  • * Three ways to manage the anxiety about pleasing your loved ones
  • * Four ways to make sure your partner values your help
  • * How to make peace without eating humble pie!
  • * How to do your thing without risking rejection from loved ones
  • * The gift that will make your valentine love you for ever!
  • * Why it’s a good sign if your date doesn’t want to sleep with you
  • * Tolerating bad stuff so the good feels even better
  • * Are your flu symptoms promting you to deal with fear of commitment?
  • * Is your relationship break up permanent or just a shift in gears?
  • * How to deal when you want commitment but your partner is hesitant!
  • * How to deal with a partner who is down when you are up!
  • * Why your Sex Life Goes from Fantastic to Boring in the blink of an eye!
  • * Positive affirmations can damage your relationships!
  • * Why your sex life is non-existant part 2- and how to get it going again.
  • * Dealing with someone who won't own hurting you!
  • * Why Your Sex Life Doesn't Work and Three Ways to Revive it!
  • * How to deal with people who want your advice but don't take it!
  • * Why you should be thankful for the things you hate!
  • * How to benefit from being ditched!
  • * Why men shut down and women ramp up in conflicts!
  • * Why does your loved one believe a stranger and not you?
  • * How to rescue your marriage from roommate status!
  • * How to manage the frustrating urge to prove you are right!
  • * Why you don't feel understood when people say they understand- part 2
  • * How to ensure no one bursts your bubble!
  • * Understanding Your Panic Attacks- Part 2 - Getting Past Shame
  • * Why you don't feel understood when your loved ones say "I understand."
  • * Understanding Your Panic Attacks - part 1- Facing your dilemmas
  • * How to avoid having your hopes dashed when you meet your loved one!
  • * Three Ways To Stop Being Invisible To Your Partner
  • * How to trust loved ones so you don’t have to do everything yourself!
  • * How persistent stress induced pain and infection can rescue your marriage!
  • * How to share what's going on with you so it gets through to your loved ones!
  • * Why protecting your partner may be the worst move you ever make!
  • * How to stop others from making your stuff all about them!
  • * How to turn a volatile conflictual marriage into a happy validating union.
  • * How to express hurt and feel better!
  • * Perfectionism may be ruining your intimate relationships!
  • * How does your style of eye contact impact relationship satisfaction?
  • * How to bargain successfully with your loved ones!
  • * How bitterness and self-blame makes you sick and depressed
  • * How to get off the emotional roller coaster with your partner
  • * How to prevent bitterness and blame from making you sick!
  • * How to deal with being blamed for everything!
  • * What makes an exciting relationship turn into a heavy burden?
  • * How to manage the pain of jealousy
  • * Is Guilt The Stick that Motivates You Into Action?
  • * How to get your partner to talk when you want!
  • * Do you want to be driven by fear or self-worth?
  • * Is Your Style of Flirting Working For You?
  • * What makes your partner break promises?
  • * How to stop feeling used in relationships
  • * Are you motivated by the stick or the carrot?- part 2
  • * How to stop being lonely!
  • * Are you motivated by the stick or the carrot?
  • * How to be independent and still be loved!
  • * Are you dying for affection but cringe when it comes?
  • * How to deal with the "damned if I do, and damned if I don't situation!
  • * Do you have to give up your past in order to have a loving future?
  • * How to make your imagined relationship into a reality!
  • * How a bladder infection can save intimacy in your marriage!
  • * What’s the right combination of commitment for harmonious relationships?
  • * *(How to get affection on your schedule!)*
  • * How to manage two parts of you that want different things!
  • * *(How to get through to loved ones without repeating yourself!)*
  • * How to regain control and self-respect when you feel betrayed
  • * *(How to manage when your partner loses interest in you!)*
  • * How to manage rejection sensitivity and be more open to love!
  • * *(How to be loved 24/7 even if you think you don't deserve it!)*
  • * What makes you happy - people or accomplishments?
  • * *(How to turn nagging into loving connections)*
  • * Is fear of being impactful depriving you of intimacy?
  • * *(How to hang onto good feelings)*
  • * How to deal with the “ if you really loved me you would……..” syndrome!
  • * *(How to get your partner to love you the way you want!)*
  • * What type of self-sacrifice benefits intimate relationships?
  • * *(How to converse with your date so you both feel special!)*
  • * How to stop using hoarding as your intimacy substitute!
  • * *(How to tell if loved ones mean what they say!)*
  • * How to manage fatigue due to relationship problems
  • * *(How to get your own way, avoid guilt and still feel lovable!)*
  • * How to get more by working less at relationships
  • * *(How to deal with the regret of the "I wish I had said...." feeling.)*
  • * Three ways to end back pain linked to mistrust in relationships
  • * *(How to deal with negative reactions you didn't intend to cause!)*
  • * Four LOVE steps for singles to turn dates into long term relationships
  • * *(How to deal with complaining loved ones)*
  • * The secret ingredients for empathy in relationships - part 3
  • * *(How To communicate that you really care)*
  • * The second secret to being empathic and boosting your relationship
  • * *(How to Speak Your Mind Without Feeling Monstrous!)*
  • * Four Ways to Share Feelings and be Empathic -part1
  • * *(How to Avoid Conflict With A Dose of Curiosity)*
  • * 7 Ways to deal with feeling 'needy' in relationships- Part 3
  • * Three ways to avoid feeling needy in relationships- part 2
  • * Two ways to avoid the shame of feeling 'needy.'
  • * Three ways to prevent self-defeatism from causing relationship stress
  • * Four ways to reconnect when your partner snubs you
  • * Fear of Intimacy - Five Tell Tale Signs
  • * How to avoid the same mistakes after a break up
  • * Five ways to breach a misunderstanding with your partner
  • * Do you fit the four point profile of a cheater?
  • * Is relationship stress making your skin dry out?
  • * How to deal with controlling people in your relationships
  • * Ten Ways to Manage Holiday Family Stress
  • * Enjoying Intimacy Like You Did In The Early Days
  • * How to Stop Anger From Ruining Good Times
  • * How to Make up After a Fight and Find Intimacy
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