“ It seemed like I was always in conflict with my wife.
I longed for peace but we got into fights over the slightest things. I believed that my wife had it in for me and wasn’t willing to give me the benefit of the doubt. Psychotherapy with Dr. Raymond helped me see that there was more than one possibility when it came to figuring out my wife’s motives and intentions.
Learning how to think outside my one track negative pathway calmed me down. I didn’t have the knee jerk reaction that she was gunning for me, so I didn’t have to defend myself in a fight. I see that most of her intentions are not at all as I imagined them. We have less fights and more conversations.” Thirty-three year old husband and father of two.
Copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
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