Relationship Advice Tips from Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.
Is it an affair? NO
Is it something shady from your past? NO
Is it your past identity? NO
Is it something about your parental or cultural heritage? N0
So what are these worms that eat away at your relationship, called secrets?
This video takes you behind the scenes of a couple who were experiencing tension in their relationship that never got resolved and in fact kept getting worse. I describe how they kept secrets on an hourly, daily basis and didn’t even know it.
Worse, they made up all sorts of stuff about one and other that wasn’t true.
These wormy secrets foster insecurity and stress.
They make for an environment of suspicion and mistrust.
They promote anger, hate and nasty outbursts when each person can’t hold it in anymore.
These secrets take couples into therapy. And it was in couples therapy that I was able to show the exact moment when one or other kept a secret, how it went unnoticed, and the damage it did.
So watch the video, and awaken yourself to what you may not realize is “keeping secret”. Then you have the power to change your relationship for the better, and give up the fear that comes with keeping secrets.
AUTHOR OF ‘Now You Want Me, Now You Don’t! Fear of Intimacy: ten ways to recognize it and ten ways to manage it in your relationships.”
Copyright, Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D. 2015
Disclaimer: this video is for informational and educative purposes only. Dr. Raymond is not responsible for any reactions you may have when reading the content or using the suggestions therein. Interacting with this material does not constitute a therapeutic relationship with Dr. Jeanette Raymond.