Bargaining with your loved ones either because you are afraid of being rejected or because you are riddled in guilt can bring short term relief. In the long run the relationships are torn into shreds because your true motives for the bargain are not on the table. Learn how to take care of your relationship with healthy compromise instead of stressful bargaining.
blaming yourself for things going wrong can save your relationship but ultimately make you drown in bitterness. The stress of swallowing it all weakens your immune system and causes depression, gastric problems and eating disorders. Learn how to share experiences with loved ones so that you can participate in a more equitable, secure, stable and safe relationship that turns the bitterness into sweetness.
Don't let your emotional roller coaster make you feel insecure in your relationships. Why go from feeling ecstatic one minute to invisible the next. Learn how to manage your feelings so that you stay connected and ride out the bad times by holding onto and using the good moments when you store and access them to your advantage. Save yourself the hassle and stress of unpredictable interactions by watching this video and learning how to keep a balanced emotional connection with your loved ones.
Dealing with personal failure by blaming someone or something else leads to bitterness, hostility and sickness. Stress put on the relationships destabilizes your immune system and makes it even more difficult for you to function and achieve your goals. Learn 3 ways to avoid blame and bitterness by collaborating with your loved ones and managing the negative emotions to protect your health and enjoy relationship stability.
If you live life bracing yourself for the next attack of unfair blame that you expect to come your way from loved ones, then you are not living at all! Get a practical tip in this video about how to listen and interpret what you hear as putting the responsibility on your shoulders for everything that goes wrong. Get out of the blame, shame and revenge cycles that destroy relationships. Open up conversations that put you on an equal footing with your loved ones, so you can enjoy your connections.
When the responsibility of caring for your partner feels burdensome the fun disappears and you want to end it, but can't let go. The conflict and guilt makes you sick and gives you a temporary respite - putting decisions on hold. Discover how to keep the romance alive and exciting while sharing responsibility.
Stop ruining your chances of having a good relationship by letting your jealousy get the better of you. Learn how to manage the destructive feelings of jealousy and hang onto the love you have, have always had and will continue to have if you don't let jealousy turn you into a deprived,angry and demanding person.
Doing things you know you should do just to avoid guilt means you are reacting to bad feelings.It is a harsh stick that never stops beating you. Guilt is a negative motivator stopping you from ever doing things out of joy, happiness, excitement or for self-improvement. Learn how to throw the guilt out of the window and get back in touch with your true motivation to have warm relationships just because you are you and not because you have to earn it or get punished when you don't do as you should. Make space for your authentic motivation and see how easy it is to get things done!
Don't suffer the hurt and anger of being rebuffed by " I'm not in the mood!" or " not now, it's not a good time!" from your partner when you are ready to talk and share. Learn how to approach your partner to get them in synch with you so that you are both ready to talk at the same time.
Are you conflicted between the vision of improvement and the comfort of having no change? Then you leave yourself open to fear being your only motivator. Why wait to be stressed out by overwhelming fear as your engine. Learn to use your own power and desire to get you behind the wheel of your own life.