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March 18th, 2011 No Comments
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Relationship Advice Tips from Dr. Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D.

 

relationship advice to deal with hurting your loved one's feeling

Caught between trying to reassure your loved one and figuring out how your words hurt!

 

Do you wonder what on earth you said or did that got such a bad reaction from your loved one or friend?

 

Are you totally shocked and stressed that your words or actions that felt so normal to you was taken in such an unintended manner?

 

Perhaps you get caught between trying to appease and reassure your friend or loved one, and trying to wrack your brains about what on earth you did or said that was so bad!

 

Here is your video tip on managing this tense and uncomfortable situation. Watch, listen and find your way through a viper's nest to find a comfortable understanding and re-connection.

 

 
 
Practice your interaction skills to create a better understanding, so you don't

  • take the blame for something  you didn't do or mean to do
  • become the bad guy unfairly
  • feel that you have to change who you are to please others


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two tone plants show how two different people can relate for a beautiful wholeness

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Disclaimer: the information in the video is for informational and educative purposes only. Interacting with the video material does not constitute a therapeutic relationship with Dr. Jeanette Raymond, who is not liable for any reactions you may experience when you watch or follow the tips contained in the video.

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